Do Babies Need a Sleeping Companion? The Power of "Transitional Objects"
Parents often wonder if providing a "sleeping companion"—such as a small plush, a lovey, or a special blanket—is the secret to a good night's rest.
The short answer? While adults can usually drift off independently, babies often need a bridge to help them cross from wakefulness to sleep.
Here is the psychology behind sleeping companions and how to choose one that is safe for your little one.
Why Babies Struggle to Sleep Alone
According to child psychologists, falling asleep independently is a learned skill, not an innate one. Unlike adults who can fluff a pillow and close their eyes, babies often experience separation anxiety when placed in their crib.
This is where a Transitional Object comes in. A transitional object (a psychologist's term for a sleeping companion) acts as a stand-in for the parent. It provides a sense of security and familiarity, helping the baby learn to self-soothe when they wake up in the middle of the night.
The Importance of Adequate Sleep
Sleep isn't just about rest; it’s about growth. Babies aged 1 to 18 months generally require 15 to 18 hours of sleep every day.
Quality sleep is critical for:
Brain Development: Processing the day's stimulation.
Physical Growth: Recharging the body for the next day's milestones.
Emotional Regulation: A well-rested baby is a happier baby.
Finding the Balance: Comfort vs. Safety
While some babies need to be rocked or sung to, many find comfort in a "bedmate." This companion helps them overcome anxieties, such as fear of the dark or sudden noises (like rain or thunder).
However, safety is the number one priority. Not all comfort objects are safe for the crib.
What to Avoid: Parents must ensure the sleeping companion poses no risk of suffocation or strangulation.
Avoid large, heavy pillows or adult-sized blankets.
Avoid items with long strings, ribbons, or loose buttons.
Avoid toys that are too large, which can be a hazard for newborns.
The Perfect Solution: Safe, Small, and Soothing
The ideal sleeping companion is small, breathable, and designed specifically for infant hands. This is why many parents are turning to functional comfort objects like Queebi.
Queebi bridges the gap between a pacifier and a lovey. It offers the sucking reflex support that calms the nervous system, paired with a small, lightweight comforter that is easy for little hands to hold.
Unlike a large heavy blanket, a compact companion like Queebi provides the necessary emotional security ("I am safe, I have my buddy") without the safety risks of loose bedding. It is the perfect first step in teaching your baby to rely on themselves for comfort.
Looking for a safe sleeping buddy for your little one? Discover the Queebi Collection here.
